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Name: BrainSketch Solutions
Country: India
 Empathy, Considerate and Patience are some of the features of good parenting. Particularly in pre-teens and teens children become impatient and may get irritated often. This is when you as a parent should display tact ! ...Well-written article.
Name: Chantillie Oliver
Country: USA
 you need some avise are teenagers and younger adluts
Name: EAGLE1
Country: USA
 i tried to find articles on self worth,but self-esteem keep popping ip the are not the same thing; self esteem has to with fetting external validation through prise and recognition and applause with self-wirth,one validate oneself with the satisfaction of a job well gonr ergardless of other people's opinion
Name: Lipika
Country: India
 the article is very good.i want to add some experience gained while conducting life-skill session of children of age group 6 to 12.when asked whether you can share all your problems with your parents most of them opined the following: parents donot have time to listen to them their first reaction is scolding, so the problem remains as it is they (children)expect better understading from their parents parents always compare what they did in their childhood whereas the time and environment have changed. we have to consider these facts too......
Name: padmini
Country: India
 i feel if parents themselves are low on esteem it would create problems for the child.
Name: Aparajita
Country: India
 i think the article was really helpful & i am really looking forward for some positive result as per my son is concerned,my only worry is i always loose patience with him very fast. and it is tremendous worry about him which is usually express in anger has lost his confidence& at times he started hating me. i am sure trhis article will help me a lot
Name: Ashutosh Nigam
Country: India
 to padmini: it is a vicious circle, parent are they as the grand parents were that way and so on. the parents need to accept themselves and then follow then tips. i will add some more things like. parents should not try to impress on child that they are perfect as it will be more hurting for kids when they realize the truth by experience. and it will happen sooner than they expect. for example lets say a father is short tempered then he can say "look i am short tempered but it is not a habit i want in me or my children. i am trying to over come it. please don't copy my this habit. the good news is i know what is good and what is not good for you, so i can guide you on that. i am trying to come over my short temper and will win over it. ...."
Name: tony
Country: india
 it is a v nice article. keep it up....
Name: rupal
Country: India
 this artical is really good. i think no school teach & care about this but some student must need to develop there self esteem & give special traing for this because child loss their self esteem in school or in family behaviour.if their esteem is low it is harmful to children as well as society .
Name: JayaselvanSpicer CollegePUNE7.
Country: India
 really its a very good article.i like and spread this message to all my friends.it will help all of us bulding our self-esteem.
Name: jm
Country: India
 we should create example before the child for all good things. it is natural tendency of the mind to grab things. we have to make him understand with live examples at appropriate time then they will realize gradually. it is lengthy process which is understood by the children with the age. but we have to continuously make efforts to improve upon them with offending them or losing temper. some body said that in the teaching of spiritual guru, the same things are repeated, the anwer was how can there can be a new route to god one god is one, path is one. it takes time, but never loss patience and teach values and ethics to children regularly which will yield excellent result in the long run when he/she grows.
Name: xvx
Country: India
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Name: gidjet
Country: usa
 i have a nine year old born in august, she does have some friends, but is often lost in a group, not one of the popular ones. she has taken her comfort in animals, and in playing with 7yr. olds. we have a 9 month old golden retreiver, she loves it, but it is not working out here, we need to let it go to a bigger home. she is devasted, this along with the changes in fourth grade make her say, "i hate myself, i wish i was dead. this hurts me, how can i help her? i can tend to loose it, i admit i am menopausal......i don't like to see her without any confidence. how can i get her to a level where she feels that she likes herself? i don't care if she is popular or not, however, i am hurt by her comments...... please help.
Name: catherine
Country: India
 to increase self esteem in children, make them feel that parent and significant others love them.sometimes children may not know and feel your expressions of love. they may like the parents to behave in the way children like them like to behave. whatever it may be, on and of, it is essential to add to your dialogue some expressions of love like "look how your dad loves you! your dad is so loving., your dad/mon is such a wonderful person " with each remarkable behavior or deeds of the parents, if such expressions are added to the children, i think it will help children persive love. '
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